"Why/How Am I In This Situation (lack of -relationship, job, money, health, happiness?)" 


By Dr. Cindy Brown,

There are many changes happening in our world lately. This can seem challenging and bring about fear and negative thoughts and actions for many people. Reacting to changing situations around us is common and normal for most of us during these times, however it is not always productive in the long-term to stay in constant negativity and fear if you want to move forward an d be more successful. In this article I am going to show you why you may be in the situation you are in, and how you can change it instantly by changing these 3 things…

The most common question I get asked in my private sessions with my coaching clients is- “Why/How Am I In This Situation?” This question can be asked of me regarding, money, career, job, dating, relationships, men, women, marriage, children, happiness…etc!

There are many individual and specific answers and advice I can give to this question, however I find there are THREE common reasons we find ourselves in certain undesirable situations and even some of you may find yourself in them repeatedly! L

Let’s look at THREE of the reasons you may find yourself in the situation you are in…

You Are Focusing on what you don’t want- Whatever we focus on, we draw to us (whether you like or believe in this or not.) Don’t you remember being excited about a specific car you wanted, with certain features, then you saw that car 10 more times that day and week. INSTEAD: Focus on what you want - like professional athletes do like Tiger Woods and gymnasts and skiers do, Tiger visualizes the ball going in the hole, not on losing it or hitting it into the pond.

I teach people who are looking for the “right” mate to focus everyday on the qualities they want to experience and feel with that new partner, instead of fearing you will never find anyone and focusing on being alone. I help people discover and define these qualities they want in a man in my “LIVE” 1-day Event, http://drcindybrown.eventbrite.com/ or you can do this exact exercise available in my new book go get it at http://www.TheCinderellaSystem.com

You Are Holding Onto the Past- Many of you are still holding onto resentments, hurts, anger about past lovers, partners, jobs, bosses, the house you used to live in, the money you used to make, or any situation in the past in a negative way, thus negativity is following you because you haven’t worked through these and let them go. INSTEAD: Allow yourself to think, write and feel thoroughly about these incidents, work with a coach to help you release negative emotions and the unfulfilled fantasy associated with this past situation This work will help you to make room for another better opportunity to come in. If all your emotional space is filled up with negativity, no positive new situation can come into your life to occupy that space.

You Are Staying in Negative Emotions- Many of you continue to exist in the world 24/7 feeling: sad, unhappy, resentful, jealous, feeling like a victim, feeling mad but entitled to everything, feeling left out, feeling unattractive, feeling out of luck, less fortunate, like a waste…these are not emotions that attract people or a lot of good opportunities to you!

Actually there was a recent survey that asked people “what makes them feel attracted or comfortable with others?” The results showed that people were attracted to: Positive Energy, Confidence, a Persons Smile, Clean and Proper Attire, Nice Hair and Make-up-Being Put Together, Healthy Weight, Good Posture, Optimistic Tone, Attitude and Words, people who are Kind and Nice to Others. SO overall this survey concluded that people respond to other people who have positive traits and features- they will offer jobs to these people, help them out more often, be attracted to them physically and romantically, approach them more often and generally want to be around them more than often than negative people.

If you are one of the people who seem to be stuck in this kind of negative swamp (I call it the poopie place) where you are displaying these types of negative and unproductive behaviors, NOT TO WORRY, there is hope for you!  I offer private coaching over the phone and at my offices in Culver City, CA and for women I have an upcoming 1 day event especially designed to help you redesign the inner and outer You So That You Attract more positive people and opportunities into your life.

Remember: In order to be the person you have never been, In order to have the life and relationships you have never had, You must do what you have never done before: Give me a call at 310-202-1610 or email me at drbrown@drcindybrownintl.com so I can support you in having the best life you’ve ever had!

©2009 Dr. Cindy Brown

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What If The Recession IS Good For Us?

What IF The Recession IS Good For US? I see the positive in these changing times. Can you?
By Dr. Cindy Brown, “The Business & Relationship Strategist”

Are you stuck in the rut most Americans are in these days? 

You don’t have to be! Read on…

So it’s your choice whether or not you see and react to the current economic climate, or what the media and government calls “the recession,” in a negative way, or a positive way. I have learned to turn any situation or environment into an opportunity for happiness, new learning and joy. 

Is this something that would be helpful to you right now? 

Are you hooked into the gloom and doom and negative outlook the media shouts at you through your TV and radio? You don’t have to participate in all that. REALLY! I don’t! Instead this is what I see:

(1.) I’ve seen Great Sale prices on almost everything! I’ve been getting deals wherever I shop. I like this recession!

(2.) I’ve been receiving Great Customer Service during these times of change and uncertainty. My bank called me for the first time to talk about my accounts and how they could help me better. It was a very helpful call. Then I was having a document notarized the other day and the person asked me about my insurance and was very helpful and informative. AND Have you noticed you local merchants are more friendly and inviting, smiling at you, giving you the time of the day, even saying your name! I like this recession!

(3.) People are being laid off (some from jobs they disliked, environments that were unhealthy, from bosses they didn’t get along with). Here’s an opportunity for people to get a job they like, work in an environment that’s healthy, Have a job that makes you happy, work for a boss that respects you and you respect her.

(4.) You loose your job or business, you can try something new! You can become an Entrepreneur; start your own home-based business, you will have better tax advantages, more freedom and flexibility. I know! I have been a successful Entrepreneur for over 19 years and have coached many people to create successful businesses as well. Some great examples I see today of businesses doing well in these changing times are- this guy who comes by my office building to detail cars, He did an incredible job; washed the outside and waxed it and did the tires, wow I will be asking him to do it again, only $20.00, he’s doing great business at my office and the building next door, Another example is to become a Virtual Assistant or V.A. for usually small business owners or operators who need some work out sourced (email, phone messages, research, computer stuff, social networking), There are training companies such as www.assistyou.com and teamdoubleclick.com, If you have your own skills you can just start your own business (the pay is $20-$100. 00 and hour depending on your skill level)

(5.) Some businesses do even better during times like these. I saw a news report that said tattoo shops are doing well, so are pawn shops and businesses like my brothers-appraising jewelry, or selling/buying gold and repair shops. I am doing well as a Psychotherapist - lots of people are under stress or have anxiety, sleeping problems or couples are fighting and as a business Coach, I have been helping people to develop their new business ideas and success mind-set.

(6.) People are bartering and /or sharing more. People are learning how to swap services in order to get their needs met. I saw a news story where a man who needed dental work swapped his gourmet restaurant food with his local dentist. The dentist was happy and so was the guy who got $1000’s of dollars worth of dental work done for him. You could like this recession!

(7.) Trading- I saw a news story that showed a new shop that opened recently that allowed people to take an item for free out of the store as long as you brought and item in to leave in the store. They called it sanctioned shop lifting (as long as you also donate a equal or greater valued item.)

(8.) I see less materialism, people are thinking more of –“ Do I really need this?” And “what do I really need to survive”. There could be less waste, more recycling and repairing and sharing. I like this recession! Do you?

(9.) People seem to be asking for help more, this gives others the opportunity to give to them. People really like the opportunity to give, it gives us good feelings, like we are contributing, sharing our resources with others. What the religions have taught us, help thy neighbor! I like this recession!

(10.) Stores, Airplane flights, Hotels, tourist destinations are all less crowded, Yeagh! More room for us, we get better deals on prices and YES better customer service. YES! I LOVE THIS RECESSION!

SO you can see, there really are great opportunities happening during the recession! Instead of being in the gloom and doom and bitching and complaining, why don’t you be part of the “smile a mile club” and see the positive and opportunities presented during changing times. 

Will you take my challenge? Maybe this is a time where old structures must die in order for us all to be happier more loving and connected to each other! Will you take my challenge and  try to see one positive thing each day about these changing times? Please email me with your findings. I will compile another article with your additions.

*Remember: In order to be the person you have never been, In order to have the life you have never had, You must do what you have never done before: Give me a call 310-202-1610 or email me so I can support you further with developing a positive outlook and behavior that attracts to you success . If you would like a Master this Mindset coaching session contact me NOW!! Anything is possible!

© 2009 Dr. Cindy Brown 



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Turn Your Stress Into Excitement: Quick Tips to Transform your Negative Attitude & Energy into a Personal Success Economy A.T.M.

“Turn Stress Into Excitement: My 3 Quick Tips to Transform Your Negative Attitude & Energy into a Personal Success Economy-A.T.M.”
By Dr. Cindy Brown, “The Business & Relationship Strategist”

Everyone is talking about “bad” times; the radio news, the TV, your friends, my coaching clients. NOT ME!

Why? Because I know that what I focus on I attract.

Now some people say to me, “Dr. Cindy, aren’t you just in denial or avoiding reality?” NO! That’s Not MY REALITY!

There’s as saying- What you believe you attract. I SAY-What you perceive (how you see the world, how you experience your environment, your world around you) you believe…so you attract just that-what you believe and perceive to be true for you!

So if you believe that the world is going down hill, that you’ll lose your job, run out of money, that you will be homeless, that etc, etc, etc. you may just create that which you are focusing on. Is this what you really want? You sure are spending a lot of time and energy focusing on it!

WHAT IF INSTEAD YOU- spent an equal amount of time or more time and energy than you have wasted watching the gloom and doom in the news on TV, or worrying or thinking of the worst case scenario, and spent this valuable time planning for success, planning for a business or strategy to prevent such crisis or disaster you are imagining is going t happen to you. Focus on what you want, NOT what you don’t want!

You can turn stress into excitement, which attracts success! I show my coaching clients everyday how to do this. I can show you how call me and book a session. My clients come into our coaching sessions with lots of complaints and stories and stress and I show them how to refocus and transform their energy and careers from stress and crisis into success attractors or personal success economies-ATMS.

My 3 Quick Tips- A.T.M.

#1 AWARENESS- You must first become aware what you focus on. Start by monitoring your thoughts, feelings, what you are thinking as you are doing everything. Try to turn off the TV and avoid being around negative or gloom and doom people for awhile. Once you are aware, you now can have to opportunity to choose what you focus on.

#2 TAKE RESPONSIBILITY- Taking responsibility is a certain dedication and care about how you respond to life and how it ultimately effects you and your life outcome. Realize that everything that happens to you, that you attract is directly related to something you did or needed to attract as a life lesson or a gift for your purpose on this earth (Ok I know many of you will be upset with this statement, you can book a session with me and we will discuss how this plays out in your life.) This is true! Believe it and receive it and it will change your life, as it did mine!

#3 MANAGE YOUR EMOTIONS – Once you are aware of your thinking, you can become aware of how that negative thinking and that negative focus creates your negative emotions and energy, thus negative results, such as your negative bank balances. Now you have a choice, Do you want stress or excitement? Hmmm? What feels better? Scientific research shows that they are actually similar biological experiences in the body (heart rate increases, shortness of breath, skin flushes, sweating etc.) Do You know what makes the difference in the experience for you? Your Thinking, Which Causes Your Emotions! In other words, your thinking there’s a crisis causes you stress which causes you to see stress which causes you to be stressed which causes negative energy which causes your boss to not like you and fire you etc etc etc!

NOW YOU HAVE YOUR OWN PERSONAL ATM! NOW YOU HAVE A CHOICE ABOUT HOW TO TURN YOUR STRESS INTO EXCITEMENT AND SUCCESS, WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR!*

*Remember: In order to be the person you have never been, In order to have the life you have never had, You must do what you have never done before: Give me a call 310-202-1610 or email me so I can support you further with a Master this Mindset coaching session NOW!!

©2009 Dr. Cindy Brown 



WANT TO USE THIS ARTICLE IN YOUR E-ZINE OR WEB SITE? You can, as long as you include this complete blurb with it: Behavior and Relationship Specialist and Coach Dr. Cindy Brown, author of The Cinderella System™ publishes a information-packed monthly online newsletter with 1000's of subscribers. If you're ready to jump-start your life and professionally and/or personally, get your FR*E Master This Mindset Starter Kit™ at: http://www.MasterThisMindsetGift.com and your FR*E Special Report & Audio Class now at http://www.SuccessfulRelationshipsNow.com.

Why Are You SINGLE? Is it a Choice, or a Result?

I find that women are either very comfortable being single or very unhappy and unsatisfied. A lot of women that I know and I meet complain about being single and dating, or internet dating, or say that there are "no good men left," or the men they do meet are,"this and that and just are not 'right'"! Or women say that they "just are not ready", or they are "not in the right place or the right shape", etc, etc, etc. DOES any of this sound familiar? I find that many of these women continue to do, be and behave the same patterns of behaviors with the same results and continue to complain and feel MISERABLE! Isn't that the definition of "insanity"?

Well it's very sad to me to experience so many unhappy women when there really is a solution! If women, you would just take some moments away from your busy lives AND dating as I did and look inside your house...look inside yourself to see what's going on (on the inside) that could be creating the same result on the outside (no date or the wrong mate). The answers and solutions are awaiting you as long as you are willing to take the journey and exploration as I did, become aware, become conscious of your stuff inside, work with it, keeping some, remodeling or getting rid of some others and learning new things about yourself, learning to accept and manage your inner world and your outer being, so that you can manifest, attract and maintain a loving partnership with yourself and with another. You can live the fairy tale you imagined as a child, as long as you are willing to do what it takes to get yourself in the place to energetically manifest that. I did so let me share with you how...

I grew up dating in High School, then went to college and then met a really great guy and got married at 21 (as many of my friends did back then). We both continued in college and in our loving relationship, having fun, traveling, fixing up houses together, eventually he taking a job in the entertainment industry and I continuing my graduate studies in Psychology. As time passed he started traveling more and working on movies out-of-town for months at a time and so we grew apart. We both decided it would be better if we split-up. We divorced in a friendly way and that's when I really discovered myself.

From that day forward I was on a mission to figure out "who I was?" and "what it was I wanted?" I had a few relationships after I was married that lasted a few years each, and each taught me more about myself. But it was the last relationship where I really noticed an unhealthy pattern that I wanted to break. I decided I would take some time off (It lasted about 5 years) from men, dating and relationships until I felt happy and healthy with myself and I could honestly feel- I didn't "need" a man in my life.

For the next 2 years I got to know myself, spent lots of time by myself, loving and nurturing myself. I found out what I liked and needed and treated myself to those things (I got very good at being selfish and it felt GREAT!) I also re-established old friendships with women and made new solid ones. We had lots of fun hanging out, dancing, vacationing, talking and being comfortable being girls. Year 3-4, I started an intense inner journey looking at myself from the inside-out. I started looking at my beliefs, attitudes, past relationships, behaviors, feelings and unconscious thoughts. Boy was that interesting! I started journaling a lot and recording all that I found out on paper. I realized lots of reasons I was still remaining single. I uncovered fears and irrational beliefs that was keeping me in the safe place I was remaining.

Year 5 was the big one, As I began to uncover and understand myself better, I began to become interested in dating again, but now I realized I needed to figure out what I really wanted (in a man and a relationship) at this point in my life...I was a bit different now and I needed to discover who would be a great match for me. SO I began a series of exercises and processes to get me to that point. AND then it happened...

I can remember it today...it was December 24th and I was supposed to be in Denver with my family for the holidays, but it was snowing cats and dogs in Denver and my flight had been cancelled here in L.A., so I was home alone impatiently waiting to be called to get a new flight out. i was checking my email AND there it was an email from a internet dating site in my email box. That day changed my life forever.

I read his email and looked for all the important points signs (I teach people how to analyze profiles and emails to insure better prospects and more safety). his grammar was great, he mentioned things he had seen in my profile, he was expressive and polite and kind and so I replied. We exchanged emails for a week or so and then met after the holidays. the rest is all good and we are happily still together today. This happened to me because i did the inner wrk that allowed me to manifest and attract the "right" guy for me according to what i wanted, needed and felt I deserved at this time. I did it so can you!

Stop feeling uncomfortable, stop feeling left out, stop feeling unloved or miserable, You Too can have the Man and Relationship of Your Dreams!

Now if you are SINGLE and you are one of the people I talk to who is happy! Keep doing what you are doing, however if at some point I can imagine you may want a partner to share life with?? That's what happened to me. I traveled by myself and with friends which was cool, I was able to do many things single, however now I choose to be in relationship, I realize now I can work on my intimacy and relationship growth and evolvement much easier when i am in relationship. When I was single I was working on myself in one way, now that I am in partnership I am discovering and growing in a different way.

If you are wanting to change your status from "single" to "in a relationship" this year in 2009, then you may want to check out a great way to do that- is to learn the 7 steps I took in order to attract the Man and relationship of my dreams.

Many of my friends and clients begged me to show them and teach them what I did, so I finally wrote them all down in a book called "The Cinderella System", and now I have a program that I take you through all 7 steps in my book and all the amazingly important exercises and processes that are in the book http://www.TheCinderellaSystemGSLC.com. You see many people were purchasing my book, but they were not doing the exercises, so they were not getting the same result i did! It's like buying a car, but not learning how to drive it! Leaving it in the garage! So I created this program so everyone can get the results I did if they do the reading and exercises.

It's your turn to drive! Your turn to be loved and in love! I want you to be part of being loved and in turn being loving! It;s your natural sate of being, take the first step now http://www.TheCinderellaSystemGSLC.com. I hope you join me!

Let me know how I can support you in living your fairy tale NOW!

I hope my sharing my story has allowed you to be hopeful and take action! You can choose a different story at any point in your life. Choose now! Your new love story is awaiting you! http://www.TheCinderellaSystemGSLC.com

Blessings of Love, Happiness and Success!

Seize Your Barack Obama Opportunity for Hope and Change Now

Many of you like me were overcome by emotion this evening, as I watched history unfold with the election of Obama as our 44th president. I have always felt the emotional weight of the oppressed and discriminated against people. I wept for them tonight, that they now have hope and change ahead. That they now can be hopefully seen, heard, respected as equal and worthy of the highest job in the land. How joyful I am that people can now let go of their ill feelings and resentment towards whites and be hopeful of what the days ahead will bring them and their children.

What an historical time we are in that we can look at our long-held beliefs about others that may look different than us and respect them as like us and that we are all the same-of mind, body and spirit, we are one!

This is a time of change and hope we can all embrace! We can all seize the opportunity to look at what we can be hopeful for and what we need to change to make us better in our business', better in our relationships and better in our lives...YES You Can!

Seize the opportunity NOW to change your own life, your own history by looking closely at your own life...what do you need to do or be to be the best you can? Do you know? Do you want to know? By working with a Master This Mindset Coach like me I can show you how to change your life for the better, change your relationships, change your financial situation for the better. Go to http://www.MasterThisMindset.com for your FREE Mindset Starter Kit NoW! Don't delay...Your Time is now! Jump on this historical energy and wave of change, be part of your own celebration of change and hope! Do it Now...YES YOU CAN!

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A New Perspective

"A NEW PERSPECTIVE: Overcome Procrastination, Relieve Stress And Balance Your Life NOW!"
By Dr. Cindy Brown, "The Relationship Strategist"

Do you get caught up in the daily grind of working and working, and doing and doing, and carrying-out your responsibilities, obligations and the mile-long list of tasks you have written down, knowing sometimes that it is next to impossible to complete, however you have the expectation that you will some how complete it?

What does this constant pressure and stress of doing, doing, doing...DO to our body, our mind and our spirit and soul?

Many of us do not even stop to ponder this very question! You tell yourself you have no time, or you leave yourself no time to think or ponder or wonder or tune into source for guidance and peace, however some of you will feel the effects as you "crash and burn" or get sick, or often something happens unexpectedly in order to stop us. That's what happened to me last year in November 2007 when my Mom passed away. I had been doing, doing, doing for months; writing my book, working in and on my coaching business simultaneously, then I was forced to slow down to deal with my family, my mourning and just to keep myself together. I tried to keep doing to avoid my feelings and avoid accepting the situation, however I soon found out that "being" is what I had to start practicing in order for my life to be more peaceful and in balance and to work more successfully. In this article I will share with you some of the things I have done and do in order to keep in balance and stress-free.

What has happened to us Americans that we have forgotten what it is like to really live in balance or just to "be"? We don't take time off, or afternoon naps, or spend evening time with friends, or even take our due vacations without our electronics or checking email or voicemail every 5 seconds!!!!

A news report I saw a few weeks ago talked about how as a nation the U.S. employee takes less vacation days then most European countries do. In fact, it noted that in many European countries the employee gets a mandatory 1 month off, and many businesses just shut down during this time. They value time off and leisure time daily, weekly and seasonally more then we do. I have traveled all over the country and I really see how people live and be differently, they value time away from work to socialize, enjoy food and beverages and just BE!

What can you do to keep your life in balance and get the best out of you? Overall you must tune in and discover ALL your needs in order to balance them. If you don't know yourself and/or your needs; this means to take time to get to know yourself or have a coach like me help you do this, you can't possibly have the fullest most successful balanced healthy life.

You can do this -

1. First you need to do a self-examination of your basic physical & biological needs
2. You need to understand your social/emotional needs
3. You need to explore what your fun and adventure needs are
4. And then lastly you need to look at what your business, career, financial needs are.

When you know your needs and then plan them into your schedule each day, week and month, you are better able to carry out your duties and tasks and be creative and open to new ideas, desire and opportunity. When I am stressed, overworked and under relaxed, I am clogged and my creativity does not flow. I am closed off to new ideas and opportunities from source, I procrastinate, then I get frustrated with myself, causing negativity in my life and body. This is how we cut off from our own flow and attract negative things and dis-ease into our lives.

These are some of the ways I keep myself balanced, healthy and open to desire, ideas and opportunity:

*Powernap-- I plan into my schedule a 20-40 minute nap each day. I am able to be more focused and productive the later part of the day. This is a bio-physical need and it is important for you to know your specific needs and limits here.

*Get outside to smell the flowers, feel the sunshine, breathe the outside air--between clients I walk out into the courtyard to cleanse myself and renew my spirit and soul.

*Move your body-- our bodies were designed to move, not to be sedentary all day. We need to move our energy and relieve daily stresses. I need a "Roto Rooter" type of workout at least every other day- this workout allows me to get my heart rate up to it's maximum and I sweat out all the toxins and stress accumulated the following days. I also get the feel good hormone...aaahhhh!

*Meditate, pray, tune into source energy--Just like a lamp needs to be plugged into an electric source to get power and be functional, we also need to plug in, in order to get the benefit of illumination. Plugging in and quieting our mind or ego, allows us to receive a different perspective from a different higher source. Try it , you like it!

*Feed and water your body--Another of your bio-physical needs. I need to eat every 3 hours to keep my blood sugar stable, my metabolism working continuously and my mood, creativity working optimally!

*Do something FUN, Adventurous and/or different with your significant other or with friends. There's a part of you that wants to have fun, make sure you tune in and listen to that part and balance you adult activities with some fun & adventure. I rollerblade, ski, sky-dive, dance, sail, rock-climb and horseback ride etc. When I do these things I get a new perspective on my current situation, I gain new ideas and clarity and often overcome procrastination and complete a project I had been avoiding. This happened last week after horseback riding with my friend Lorrie.
*Clear your mind- "Mind Dump", write, talk out-loud, sing--We often need to clear our mind from all the demands, ego chatter, "to dos", "should and shouldn'ts" of the day. Many of my clients have difficulty sleeping. I prescribe this technique of "mind dumping" on the page or out-loud talking or singing and it helps every time.

These are just a few of the many ways I have found help me live a healthier more balanced life. My hope is that you too can create a healthier more successful life by gaining a different perspective. You then can transform your life into the heaven on earth you deserve NOW!

Remember: In order to be the person you have never been, In order to have the life and relationships you have never had, You must do what you have never done before: Give me a call or contact me so I can support you in having the best life you've ever had!

© 2008 Dr. Cindy Brown

WANT TO USE THIS ARTICLE IN YOUR E-ZINE OR WEB SITE? You can, as long as you include this complete blurb with it: Behavior and Relationship Specialist Dr. Cindy Brown, author of The Cinderella System™ 7 Steps to Attracting the Man & Relationship of Your Dreams, publishes a information-packed monthly online newsletter with 100's of subscribers. If you're ready to jump-start your life and relationships professionally or personally, get your FREE Relationship Success Kit™ at: www.TheCinderellaSystem.com and your FREE Special Report & Audio Class now at www.SuccessfulRelationshipsNow.com